What’s happening: “IF I DON’T GET THE THING THAT I GIVE, THEN MAYBE OTHERS DESERVE IT MORE”
This is the kind of love that this generation is having. People are at haste and want to get things over with. But continue to believe in waiting and letting things take its course naturally. Time is everything. However, many people who think that they have a zero chance for this man/woman or if they find the progress too slow, they immediately vanish because they always have this idea that they deserve someone who gives them what they want- all the attention. However, at some point, I do believe they do.
But when we go back to the very definition of love, loving someone means not forcing anything in return.
If you love her, you love her.
If you want to willingly help her, you give it freely without an exchange for coffee.
If you want to forgive, you will forgive and not ask for a house and lot in return.
If you want to show you care,
If you see her sad and disappointed, trying to hide the sadness and tears,
You will comfort her but you won’t wait and expect her to also comfort you in your darkest days.
Why? Because you do those things willingly out of love.
But, can we really stand showing love without getting any love in return? It’s painful. But it doesn’t mean that when you are the only person who is loving someone, you are wrong. You see, it’s never wrong. You are doing the right thing. You are doing the good thing. You are taking risks. You are loving without forcing anything in return.